1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:04,440 Earlier in "90 Day Fiance: The Other Way". 2 00:00:04,520 --> 00:00:08,000 I want to ask you one thing. I want to ask you ... 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:11,040 -.. if you want to marry me. -The lover. 4 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:14,200 Yes, honey. 5 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:18,440 Do you see how she behaves? 6 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:23,040 As a co -parent I must Also have something to say about. 7 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:27,520 If you are going to point out things you have to Do it more enjoyable. 8 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:32,120 -I want to know what you are doing. -Today, check it out. 9 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:36,880 I want to make sure That no shame happens. 10 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:39,600 Deavan doesn't trust me yet. 11 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:42,200 I've done bad things before. 12 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:45,320 He used to sell stolen mobiles. 13 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:47,880 -Is it not stolen? -Not stolen. 14 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:54,320 My wife has finally withdrawn the notification. 15 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:58,800 I see the light at the end of the tunnel- 16 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:02,400 -But my visa is going out soon. 17 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:07,240 When is the divorce ready? How long does it take? 18 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:15,760 Mom and Aunt Carmen will Visit me and Melyza in Colombia. 19 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:19,480 I want to see with my own eyes That you are doing the right thing for you. 20 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:24,720 If Tim makes a big mistake, Will I tell him. 21 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:29,360 I sat with my father and one of my uncles, and a relative of me- 22 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,440 -Kycked photos from social media to my family. 23 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:36,080 Brittany had revealing clothes. 24 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,640 He kicked me out. He kicked me from work. 25 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:43,520 When I get back to Jordan has to make a choice. 26 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:48,720 He must say he is going to live for his future wife and family. 27 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:51,080 If he doesn't understand it, it's over. 28 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:58,160 -Where is the baby? -She brought him for his cut. 29 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:04,400 He would always be circumcised, But I deprive him of the election. 30 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,880 Don't touch him. 31 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,720 I don't want him to do it now. 32 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,040 Shouldn't you do the circumcision? 33 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:18,760 What is happening? 34 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:35,480 Biniyam, 29 years, Ethiopia Ariela, 28 years, New Jersey 35 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:48,120 Tell us what happened. 36 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,320 I'm so angry. 37 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:57,280 I'm upset now, I don't even want to talk about it. 38 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:01,040 I might talk later. I have to go. 39 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:09,640 Did a white woman go by here? 40 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:14,080 What Ariela did was inappropriate. 41 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:20,240 It is unusual in Ethiopia. We respect the elderly. 42 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:24,400 She didn't even say hello then- 43 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:29,640 -or explained why she was not Wanted him to be circumcised. 44 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,280 She opened the door and went. 45 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:37,680 Why do you say no? 46 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,600 I'm tired of being mean, was no more mean. 47 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:47,800 I've already had a bad day. 48 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:51,720 I don't care about What you have to say. 49 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:53,440 I wasn't mean to you. 50 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:00,880 -Is it for the culture? -No, it's Jewish culture too. 51 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:06,600 I understand that, But I'm not ready for it today. 52 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:11,600 -I said I'm not ready. -It's not you, avi should. 53 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:13,240 It's my baby ” 54 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:19,000 That's my baby too. What's the matter with you? 55 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,480 I wonder the same thing. What's wrong with you? 56 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:27,400 -Hher God. -And now you said that. My God. 57 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:31,080 -Ward the beginning. If you are mean to me ... -You just think about yourself. 58 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,280 Do I just think of myself? So? 59 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:41,200 -It's you who ran away. -I just went with my baby. 60 00:04:43,840 --> 00:04:46,600 Ariela makes me angry. 61 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:52,280 She is incomprehensible And get angry with everything. 62 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,320 I said I didn't want to today. 63 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:58,280 I have so much pressure on me Doing things I don't want to. 64 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:03,000 I said you could name him, But let me do things my way. 65 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:10,280 If he does it early Will not be in pain. 66 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:15,520 I don't care when it is. My decision, my decision. 67 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:21,240 -I think of our baby. -No, you don't. 68 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:25,160 You think about your feelings, not the newspaper. 69 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:28,080 I think of my son! You don't think about him. 70 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:32,040 You think: "My culture. I'm a Proud Dad. I want to do this. ” 71 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:34,840 I shit in your stupid masculinity! 72 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:39,520 Why did you stop the circumcision? Because I'm not kind to you? 73 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,800 I didn't feel Comfortable with the situation. 74 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:46,480 -It's your feeling, not ... -I did it for my son's sake. 75 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:51,120 I saw that he was finally calm. He was upset, drugged by the vaccine. 76 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:56,000 I want to give him time. It didn't feel good. 77 00:05:56,080 --> 00:06:01,320 I have no good feeling then it is Something that is not right, so I went. 78 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:09,080 I said that my stress level Is up here. I'm really stressed. 79 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:13,760 It's a lot more than me can handle now and you have to understand- 80 00:06:13,840 --> 00:06:19,200 -That I can't handle more stress. I Need a week to relax. 81 00:06:19,280 --> 00:06:22,800 I'm too stressed. Okay? 82 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:29,200 I don't want to scream or quarrel with you. 83 00:06:29,280 --> 00:06:34,200 But I'm too stressed. It's not good for me. 84 00:06:34,280 --> 00:06:37,840 I feel it in the body, With the headaches and everything. 85 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:42,160 I'm tired, It makes everything much more difficult. 86 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:49,400 I need time to relax And all this doesn't help. 87 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,800 Now we go home. 88 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:04,040 He just fell asleep. 89 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:07,600 Poor little thing. 90 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:21,600 It is very difficult. Her life has changed. She is a mother. 91 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:25,240 She needs time to get used to. 92 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:29,000 But i'll be happier If it doesn't delay. 93 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:35,000 Don't worry. We can go home and let you rest. 94 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,000 We rest. You need to rest. 95 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:42,640 Okay? I love you. 96 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:44,640 We love you too. 97 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:58,720 Jihoon, 29 years, South Korea Deavan, 23 years, Utah 98 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,560 Now we go. 99 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,720 -Okay, now we go. Speed ​​up. -Now we're going to have fun. 100 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:09,240 It's okay. 101 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:15,480 Today we are going to he River Park to meet my friends. 102 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:21,360 I will introduce my family for Friends from college and high school. 103 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,840 What do you think about this? 104 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:30,080 I like to get tents to It's so hot. It's a good idea. 105 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:31,600 There is my friend. 106 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:33,960 Hello! What happens? 107 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,040 Say hello. 108 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:37,760 This is my wife. 109 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:41,480 -This is my daughter, Dracilla. -Drascilla? 110 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:47,080 I have met Jihoon's friends before, But never these. 111 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,640 I look forward to getting to know them. 112 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:53,560 This is my son. He is similar to me, right? 113 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:57,800 He can't take you after you. If he is struggling on you, he's fucked up. 114 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:03,320 They remember jihoon as a kid. As a little boy. 115 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:07,560 -He was a shit. -Yes. He is still a shit. 116 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:15,160 My Hyung, I know you don't brought your wife as a babysitter. 117 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,000 The kids play well with each other. 118 00:09:18,680 --> 00:09:22,720 If you have questions, ask them. 119 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:25,920 Good English. -He also speaks English. 120 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:32,000 Has jihoon always been irresponsible with money? 121 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:36,440 Was he good at economics? 122 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:40,560 I lived with jihoon at the boarding school. 123 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:45,880 He spent a lot of money. He ate and drank a lot. 124 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:52,280 He says Jihoon wasted money. Junk life. 125 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:55,320 -Skliv? -Debris. 126 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:05,080 I was surprised that he exactly Had become a father to two children. 127 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:09,400 I had not expected that. 128 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:14,200 He is childish. Until now. 129 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,600 Should she stay here in Korea? 130 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,280 -Yes, you live in Korea. -For good? 131 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:25,240 -Forever? -I don't know. 132 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:30,840 It has been very good between jihoon and me- 133 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:34,680 -But the other day I saw Things on Jihoons Phone- 134 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:37,120 -That makes me doubt everything. 135 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,320 Switch on him. 136 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:42,760 -Diaper? -Yes, he's sticky. 137 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:45,200 He pooped. 138 00:10:48,680 --> 00:10:53,200 I can't stop thinking about it, But I don't know what to say. 139 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:58,760 I want to ask his friends, for I want to get to the bottom with this- 140 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:02,280 -and I think that they would know the truth. 141 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:08,000 Because you have known jihoon So long, I have to ask you one thing. 142 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,080 I don't know how to say that. 143 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:18,960 Jihoon had saved pictures of girls, selfies, naked girls on their mobile. 144 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:23,880 I try to understand If it is normal here. 145 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:28,360 She looked at Jihoon's phone. 146 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:35,080 She said there was Nude pictures of foreign girls. 147 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:39,640 Doesn't everyone look at this? 148 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:47,920 I have many nude pictures of girls. 149 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:56,320 It's not bad, Because it's sexual desire. 150 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:03,160 I don't think That he has feelings for the girls. 151 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:10,120 He says that Although he has those pictures- 152 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:13,000 -He just bridges about you. 153 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:19,880 But it was selfies. So a girl took them and sent them. 154 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:26,080 -Where is that like a sex chat? -It seems so. 155 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:33,280 It was no ordinary, daring picture in a newspaper. 156 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:37,120 She believes That it was a picture from a chat. 157 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:45,160 Now I just want to know If he has been faithful. 158 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:50,080 Otherwise I can't be here, Because it's unfair to me. 159 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:55,560 Marriage is about to believe and trust each other. 160 00:12:55,640 --> 00:13:00,640 I feel sorry for Deavan, Because he has broken her confidence. 161 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:04,200 But I don't believe That jihoon is a bad person. 162 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:08,840 -I don't think he was unfaithful. -I don't either. 163 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:20,760 I have known jihoon for eleven years, Although he was foolish- 164 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:23,600 -Is he no bad guy. 165 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:27,800 It is probably the best That you give him another chance. 166 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:34,320 He doesn't think That jihoon is a bad person. 167 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,480 Give him time and a chance. 168 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,760 It sounds like That his friends protect jihoon. 169 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,800 It sounds like they hide something. They are not honest. 170 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:54,400 Here, be careful. 171 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:00,000 You probably talked badly about me. 172 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:04,480 I have to confront Jihoon with my suspicion- 173 00:14:04,560 --> 00:14:10,040 -and I hope That that is not what I think. 174 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:14,880 Hopefully don't say his friends something, because then he will keep- 175 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:19,640 -Keep on excuses and I Can't waste more time on lies. 176 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,920 Jenny, 61 years, California Sumit, 32 years, India 177 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:37,240 -Heah, honey. -Heah, honey. 178 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:39,360 I've done some chai for you. 179 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:45,120 -I think you need it. -Yes, definitely to wake up. 180 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,480 Sumit will be up to court today. 181 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:51,880 If everything goes as it should The divorce goes through today. 182 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:55,360 How do you feel? 183 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:59,560 It feels as a mixture of emotions. 184 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:02,800 I'm a little happy That I should divorce. 185 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:06,120 -Lite happy? -Not a little. Very happy. 186 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:07,880 But I'm a little nervous too. 187 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:13,840 Although the prosecution has been closed, Isn't the divorce ready. 188 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:18,640 Today a judge review the case- 189 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:22,600 -and I'll pay the rest of the money to my in -laws. 190 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:27,400 Then the right will accept My application for divorce. 191 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:34,040 I am tense and a little nervous, for I Must meet my in -laws again. 192 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:40,200 They might accuse me or try to blackmail me on more money- 193 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,680 -And delay my divorce. 194 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:47,640 I keep my thumbs Because the divorce goes through. 195 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:50,680 I don't know What will happen in court. 196 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:52,760 We'll see. I hope for the best. 197 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:58,200 -Heh, Sumit. -Hello. 198 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:01,760 -Heh, Jenny. -He, Rohit. How's it? 199 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:05,880 -You are ready? -Yes, I'm ready, type. 200 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:10,160 My friend, Rohit Will drive me to court. 201 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:14,600 I am so thankful That he supports my relationship. 202 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:17,960 -I wish you good luck. -Thanks. 203 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:19,480 -I love you. -I love you too. 204 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:24,800 It's a big day. It was That's why I got back to India. 205 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:29,640 I hope all is going well, for my visa is going soon- 206 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:32,720 -and I want to be with the man I love. 207 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:37,240 We have to get married so that I can Stay here permanently this time. 208 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:46,800 What is your plan after the divorce? 209 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:54,440 After the divorce I promised To marry Jenny. 210 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:58,040 But I have to persuade my parents. 211 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:05,760 Last time I met my parents We made progress. 212 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:11,080 I think they know we love each other and that love is genuine. 213 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:13,640 They will probably accept it. 214 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:18,880 -After this you can convince them. -I hope so. 215 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:27,040 My parents support the divorce. Dad meets me in court. 216 00:17:27,120 --> 00:17:31,440 I owe $ 10,000 For the rest of the 20,000- 217 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:34,120 — like I have to pay to my in -laws. 218 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:37,000 My father helps me with the money. 219 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:50,720 I'm happy. A little nervous. 220 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,640 For today, a chapter ends. 221 00:17:56,080 --> 00:18:00,720 I have paid a lot to end my son's marriage. 222 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:05,040 It's not easy to pay such a large sum. 223 00:18:05,120 --> 00:18:10,040 I have raised money from my relatives, friends and from the bank. 224 00:18:10,120 --> 00:18:15,840 I will pay it for My son's mental well -being. 225 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,720 I am getting more and more nervous. 226 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:26,320 I don't trust at all on my in -laws or my wife. 227 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:30,880 Last time I met my in-laws and my wife- 228 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:33,760 — came 20 relatives to her home to me. 229 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:38,920 They were out on the road and began to scream and cry- 230 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:44,600 -That we tried steal their money and beat them. 231 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:50,080 They are very dangerous, So anything can happen. 232 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,960 Keep your thumbs And hope for the best. 233 00:18:54,120 --> 00:18:59,080 No cameras Were allowed in the courtroom 234 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:21,440 Five hours later Met the team Sumit 235 00:19:26,360 --> 00:19:30,240 -Hello. -Hello. How's it? 236 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:34,480 Well, i'm waiting for you Will hear from you. Waiting anxiously. 237 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:38,960 -What? -Clear! 238 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:41,960 -The Sex Fair is finished. -Have you divorced? 239 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:46,400 Finally I'm free. Yes! 240 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:52,680 -Hher God, I'm so happy! -I am so happy. 241 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,880 Thank goodness! 242 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,080 I promised and I did it. 243 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:05,240 Today gets mine And Jenny's relationship a fresh start. 244 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:08,840 I am divorced and very happy. 245 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:14,120 I feel free and now I can focus on what I have to do- 246 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:18,600 -and how to marry Jenny And plan our future together. 247 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:22,000 -I love you! -I love you too. Hello then. 248 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:37,600 Yazan, 24 years, Jordan 249 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:45,480 It was a while ago I was thrown out of the house. 250 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,840 My family has gotten worse. 251 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:56,000 Now it is spread Many new, strange rumors. 252 00:20:56,080 --> 00:21:01,720 Rumors come from those who stands closest to me, my family team. 253 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:05,760 They say that Brittany And I live together and am married. 254 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:11,960 They say we have sex And make porn videos. It's lies. 255 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:16,440 Since I moved away from home Have I missed my brother. 256 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:23,560 I can't meet him. I want to not cause problems for any of us. 257 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:28,640 But I'm worried about My family believes in the new rumors. 258 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:32,280 That's why I have to Talk to them. Communicate- 259 00:21:32,360 --> 00:21:36,000 -To to sort out things. 260 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:39,400 What happens, Obaida? 261 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,720 How's it? What happens? 262 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,560 My God, the man. 263 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,760 Yazan is my big brother. I love him. 264 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:13,440 But my father did right in kicking out Yazan. 265 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:16,280 For what Yazan did was not good. 266 00:22:16,360 --> 00:22:19,840 People gossip And you give us a bad reputation. 267 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:21,840 I'm actually bothered. 268 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:26,280 Brittany wants to come here. 269 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,120 By the end of the week. 270 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:36,120 Book a meeting with him for me, Then I get there. 271 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,120 I want to solve it Before she comes, obaida. 272 00:22:40,120 --> 00:22:43,040 Are you still serious with the girl? 273 00:22:43,120 --> 00:22:46,960 She still puts up Pictures on social media every day. 274 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:52,160 -Every day she puts up something new. -Brittany is a human being, like us. 275 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,720 Yazan, are you married to the girl? Are you lying with her? 276 00:22:56,640 --> 00:23:00,800 -Do you not feel your brother? -Okay, I know. That's what we heard. 277 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,160 I know people talk. 278 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:10,520 That's not true. I know that is outrageous and hurtful. 279 00:23:11,360 --> 00:23:16,360 I want my father's support. I want you to talk to him. 280 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:21,720 Talk to him and say: "Father, Yazan is a man." 281 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:26,080 “Yazan does not behave in a way that would upset our God. ” 282 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:30,840 He raised a human being that fears Allah and behaves. 283 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:39,160 I know, Yazan. Okay, I'll talk to him for you. 284 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:40,920 Hopefully things are going well. 285 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:57,360 Later that day 286 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,880 -Who is that? -Dad. 287 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,880 Welcome. May Allah be happy with you, my son. 288 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:10,360 Ziad Yazan's father 289 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:14,360 -How is that? -Similarly, I'm tired. 290 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:19,760 I'm not sleeping. I think on the situation. I'm not sleeping. 291 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:24,800 I kicked out Yazan from the house and gave him fired from work- 292 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:30,960 -for people say to me: "Look what your son Yazan is doing." 293 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,280 Look here. 294 00:24:33,360 --> 00:24:36,920 This is what they send me. Look here. 295 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:45,920 Everyone talks And say they spoil us. 296 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,720 They say my son has disgraced us. 297 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:54,680 They see pictures of her on social Media and she is almost naked. 298 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:59,240 This is a big deal for us. A really big thing. 299 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:05,800 Your uncle Youssef says That she is in porn videos. 300 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,200 What do you think? That he would start making porn videos? 301 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,600 And clean up after her? 302 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,800 After all my life would my dignity be destroyed. 303 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:17,360 Do you accept that? 304 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:23,320 He hoped it would resolve. 305 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:27,400 -He can marry her. -She is a liar! 306 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:31,360 That's enough. People talk about us. 307 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:36,960 -Dad, they just talk. -I don't want people to talk. 308 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,320 I hear people talk every day! 309 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,560 I want you to go to him and says: 310 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:46,520 “If you marry her, So your father will kill you. ” 311 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,120 No Dad. 312 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:55,280 I tell you this And I warn you. 313 00:25:55,360 --> 00:25:59,960 Tell Yazan that if he didn't Changes so I kill him. 314 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:07,800 If Yazan wants to do things on his Way my father will hurt him. 315 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,680 Hopefully I can persuade Yazan to do the right thing. 316 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,840 -Okay, my son? -Okay. 317 00:26:28,120 --> 00:26:30,120 Tim, 34 years, Texas Melyza, 29 years, Colombia 318 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:44,280 It's not good. The futon is like a puzzle. 319 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:49,080 I have to be smarter than the sofa. 320 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,480 Melyza and me still have problems. 321 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:57,560 When she said she had been lying with someone else I began to doubt on- 322 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:02,720 -If she takes our relationship seriously. 323 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:07,160 She began to doubt as well When I was unfaithful. 324 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,640 -Do you need help? -It's going well. 325 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:13,520 But i love melyza And want to be with her. 326 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:19,040 We both took a conscious decision About to repair our relationship. 327 00:27:19,120 --> 00:27:22,040 But before we could make some progress- 328 00:27:22,120 --> 00:27:25,960 -comes my mom And aunt Carmen visiting this weekend. 329 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:29,880 We do it together This is how it goes faster. 330 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:34,640 It's surreal That Mom and Carmen come here. 331 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:40,200 -I'm tense, but nervous. -I with. Hope she likes it. 332 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:44,920 Considering How tough we've had it- 333 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:50,800 —ceek that's not the right time for Mom to get to Medellin. 334 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:55,120 She comes here as a protective mother. 335 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:59,400 She wants to see how Melyzas and my relationship is now- 336 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:03,960 -And how Medellín is If I'm going to stay here. 337 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:09,240 I'm curious about If they ask anything about us. 338 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:15,200 I don't know what to tell About what we talked about the other day. 339 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,480 About meeting others. 340 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,520 Why did you have to Tell her? 341 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,920 I don't know if needed. 342 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,360 I'm so split, I try to be open and honest. 343 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,400 But it has to do with us, Not with her. 344 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,360 It is not ideal that Robin comes to visit now- 345 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:40,200 -for we try to build up the confidence And work on our relationship. 346 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:46,080 She is hesitant to that he will move abroad- 347 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:49,200 -and continue our relationship. 348 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:53,880 I don't know how to handle it. 349 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:58,560 It has happened to things in the past- 350 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:03,400 -which has not helped My relationship with her. 351 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:08,120 It gives her more reasons Not to like this- 352 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,160 -or to not think that we should be together- 353 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,640 -or that I'm good for you, As she says I am not. 354 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:22,320 My relationship with robin have always been friendly. 355 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:26,560 We will agree well, But our relationship changed- 356 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:31,040 -When she greeted me And Tim when I lived with him. 357 00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:37,240 I was still very hurt that he had been unfaithful. 358 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:41,960 We had a serious discussion And he exploded. 359 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:47,320 He started screaming and saying things, And I was also upset. 360 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:51,400 We started screaming at each other and throw things- 361 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,880 -and she pulled me into a room and sa- 362 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:59,440 -This if I didn't calm down Then she would call the police. 363 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:03,600 I lost respect For her after that. 364 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:08,720 We have had problems before. 365 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:13,800 I don't feel comfortable with to be here when she's here. 366 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:18,840 I was actually thinking about living with my parents while they are here. 367 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:24,400 Mom probably doesn't take it properly. 368 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:28,680 We will hang out. I Do not say we will not be seen. 369 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:34,240 I want to make sure That your relationship is ... 370 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:38,400 -No have to cook it. -We see how it goes. 371 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:46,080 The visit can be bad for our relationship. 372 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:50,680 It will not just pull up bad memories and old wound- 373 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:54,120 -I am also nervous for that I don't know how it will go- 374 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:58,760 -The trees she's here And we start talking about the problems. 375 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:05,240 Do me a favor and think about the matter A little more, if you want to stay here. 376 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,120 Kenneth, 57 years, Florida Armando, 31 years, Mexico 377 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,080 I put it in the water. 378 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:39,120 It has been emotional since I Moved here, but I do not regret it. 379 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:42,600 Before I have only spent 8-12 days at a time with Armando. 380 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:48,240 I've never been with him like this long and every day is a gift. 381 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:51,440 He's perfect. I am fortunate. 382 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:55,480 What are you doing? 383 00:31:55,560 --> 00:32:00,160 I only terminate the application letter for a same -sex marriage. 384 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:06,560 We want to get married as fast as possible, because we love each other- 385 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:11,240 -But also for the residence permit So that I can start working. 386 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:13,480 While Hannah is in school- 387 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:18,360 -Do we go to the wedding office and apply for a marriage license. 388 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:21,840 -Everything is in Spanish, so I don't know. -No. 389 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:26,480 Do you believe that our age Will be a warning sign? 390 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:33,280 Perhaps, But I wrote that we both are over 18- 391 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,520 -And we know what we are doing. 392 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:40,800 I was told we had to write a letter and ask to get married- 393 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,720 -and we needed to write That we were a same -sex couple. 394 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:50,360 I don't know what to believe. We already seem to have obstacles. 395 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:54,080 I explained that we have been together for three years- 396 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:58,200 -and that we have decided on to consolidate it through marriage. 397 00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:06,440 Hopefully we will be approved. Heterosexuals need no letter. 398 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:11,240 -It's like we ask them ... -If condition. 399 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:21,000 It is sad that we have to do Special things to be approved. 400 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:23,680 Unfortunately, we have to do it. 401 00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:26,960 Now we go. 402 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,240 Same -sex marriage have been legal in Mexico since 2015- 403 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:42,560 -but I have read that same -sex couples have difficulty getting their license approved. 404 00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,960 Now we drive. We'll see what they say. 405 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:59,800 One is still looking down on gay marriage in Mexico. 406 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:04,480 Because of the culture it is not as accepted as in the United States. 407 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,760 In a way it is Like traveling back in time. 408 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:16,080 It sucks that we have so much to worry about on the road. 409 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,120 -And heterosexuals just ... -They don't have to. 410 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:22,800 -They don't want to make it easy. -Not not at all, I guess. 411 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:31,280 I hope That they do not give us problems. 412 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,160 I'll think positively. They will see us. 413 00:34:35,240 --> 00:34:41,000 “They're so cute together. We give them a license. ” 414 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:45,440 "We are not making it difficult for them. They are too cute for not getting married. ” 415 00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,280 Of course. 416 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,360 I'm worried. It is a difficult process. 417 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,080 But we hope for the best. 418 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,200 Nothing can stop us. We solve it. 419 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:22,920 Biniyam, 29 years, Ethiopia Ariela, 28 years, New Jersey 420 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,160 Hi Miriam, how is it? It's Ariela. 421 00:35:32,240 --> 00:35:38,400 Good. I wanted to get by today and do the child's circumcision. 422 00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,280 When we got to the hospital In order to circumcise AVI- 423 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:46,840 -I got panic and ran screaming out of the hospital. 424 00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:51,640 Okay, we're there 15:00. 425 00:35:51,720 --> 00:35:57,840 It's been a week, but I Am not happy about the circumcision. 426 00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,920 I will go to the hospital, Not because I will- 427 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:05,040 -Outan for my family And Biniyam pushes me. 428 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:08,400 When I protested against the circumcision- 429 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:13,120 -Sa biniyam that we would do that And that I have no choice. 430 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:18,640 There was no space for compromises or to wait. 431 00:36:18,720 --> 00:36:23,040 We have to get there at 15:00, For the doctor operates all day. 432 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:26,240 Until 15:00. Then we go. 433 00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:34,840 Ariela and I talked. 434 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:41,760 She has agreed to to circumcise him. 435 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,280 I'm happy about that. 436 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,720 I want my child Should be circumcised. 437 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:54,040 I want him to have a life similar to his friends. 438 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:59,040 I don't want him to be ashamed. He should grow up and become confident. 439 00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,920 And show the snoop with the top. 440 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:10,080 Hello, the old man. Yes. 441 00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:18,440 It doesn't feel better to circumcise him today- 442 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:21,840 -I just feel That I have no choice. 443 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:29,000 -Why do you have no choice? -I feel you are pushing me. 444 00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:33,400 Even though I say I don't want to, So you will do it. 445 00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:36,480 No, but he just needs one thing. 446 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,200 Bini says he just wants a thing- 447 00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:44,320 -But baptism was also the only thing he wanted. 448 00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:48,480 You push me every time, That's all I think about. 449 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:53,400 “One last thing, please do this for me. ”He uses my feelings. 450 00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:58,480 He makes me emotional And he knows I will give in. 451 00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,360 He doesn't stop pushing me. 452 00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,040 I don't want to go in there with you. 453 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,960 -Don't you want to? -I don't want to be around. 454 00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:13,880 -I don't want him to be in pain. -The fear is in the head. 455 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:17,720 In Ethiopia it is normal. You just have to give the baby ... 456 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,200 Not just in Ethiopia, It is normal in many other countries. 457 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,440 I don't feel better for that. He's my baby. 458 00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:26,920 I don't want him to be in pain. 459 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:33,320 I don't understand why Ari is so worried. 460 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:37,640 She thinks the baby will be in pain. She stresses too much. 461 00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:43,120 This makes me angry and frustrated. 462 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,880 It's not a big deal. 463 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:53,800 -You can come along. -No, I'll murder him. 464 00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:58,480 -You can wait at the door. -I don't want to see him. Do it. 465 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:00,080 It's ridiculous. 466 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:08,840 It's good that Ari is waiting Outside the operating room. 467 00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:14,040 She will be upset, So it's good that she's outside. 468 00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:17,000 I don't want to that the doctor should make a mistake- 469 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:21,200 -For she makes him jump. 470 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,560 Don't worry. You must be strong, avi. 471 00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:33,000 You have to be strong. Was strong as a dad, okay? 472 00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:40,400 Mom can take care of you when you get home. 473 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,600 I have never loved anyone that I love AVI. 474 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,520 He is so beautiful and innocent. 475 00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:55,520 I don't want to see my son suffer or be the cause of his suffering. 476 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:10,360 My God, that's the baby. 477 00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:30,120 It's not his usual screams, He has a huge pain. 478 00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:41,840 It's so awful. 479 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:46,560 I never forgive biniyam For this. Don't move me. 480 00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:51,760 Why did I do this? 481 00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:55,160 -It's no ordinary crying. -It's okay. 482 00:40:55,240 --> 00:41:00,240 No, it's not okay. I took A horrible decision. I regret it. 483 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,080 My God, it's ... 484 00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,360 Yazan, 24 years, Jordan 485 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,560 Obaida Yazan's brother 486 00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:41,520 -Frid be with you. -Frid and God's grace. What happens? 487 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,000 Peace, how are you? 488 00:41:45,720 --> 00:41:50,800 Yesterday I sent obaida To talk to our father to me. 489 00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:55,000 Now he asked me to come to the workshop. 490 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,560 What happened? Have you talked to our father? 491 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:04,360 -I talked to our father. -Yes? What happened? 492 00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,760 Do you know how upset our father is? 493 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:14,960 He is extremely upset. 494 00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:19,960 You have to say to him That you have ended with Brittany. 495 00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:22,840 No. 496 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:26,800 If you say you want to be with Brittany, he will kill you. 497 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:30,600 That's how the discussion ended. 498 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:42,560 My father has threatens me If I marry Brittany. 499 00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:47,200 He did it because he am worried about the rest of the family. 500 00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:49,720 He has a family to protect. 501 00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:57,160 I come from a conservative family. If I am ashamed of them- 502 00:42:57,240 --> 00:43:01,080 -will they shift me, Or they can kill me. 503 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:10,840 Let me think. I might can make him change. 504 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:16,480 Why would he change his mind? Why Are you still attached to Brittany? 505 00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,760 Do you see what Brittany is doing? 506 00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,920 Or don't you want to see? Don't want to wake up? 507 00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:32,400 Did you talk about the Instagram thing? She still posts pictures. 508 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,160 -Icaples you? -Of course, not. 509 00:43:36,240 --> 00:43:39,200 -How would you welcome her? -I don't want to be unfair! 510 00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:46,720 When she converts to Islam will she get rid of job- 511 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:54,000 -and can lose their friends. She will be with me in Jordan. 512 00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:57,520 She will lose a lot. 513 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:02,640 When we have an agreement And I show how much I sacrificed- 514 00:44:02,720 --> 00:44:08,520 -do I say she should sacrifice as much as I have done. 515 00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:13,320 She should give up her past life. 516 00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:18,320 As I have given up my And then we would start a new life. 517 00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:25,240 Yazan, listen to me. You have to leave her. 518 00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:30,520 For I swear, You didn't see our father yesterday. 519 00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:36,880 I have more pressure on me Even any human being can handle. 520 00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:41,640 I am fighting for her And find excuses. 521 00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:48,360 I do impossible things To save our relationship. 522 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:51,480 But I want to know Whether she loves me or not. 523 00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:58,640 I can't make the wrong decision. It can ruin my life. 524 00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:04,960 When have you ever seen Your brother Yazan make the wrong life choice? 525 00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:07,640 It's the first time You make a mistake in your life. 526 00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:16,120 I have never made a decision As everyone thought was wrong. 527 00:45:17,240 --> 00:45:22,120 That's why I don't want to end now. 528 00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:27,160 This girl is coming soon. All I want of you, obaida- 529 00:45:27,240 --> 00:45:32,280 -Is to give me two, three, four days. Maximum one week. 530 00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:35,960 I just need one last chance- 531 00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:40,160 -To prove That my decision is right. 532 00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:44,320 -I am worried about you. -I know. 533 00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:49,960 I know what danger I am in. 534 00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:04,600 Jihoon, 29 years, South Korea Deavan, 23 years, Utah 535 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:15,400 Pretty nice. Traditional Korean. 536 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:21,840 -Are you hungry? -Yes, I'm starving. 537 00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:34,880 Jihoon! I have to talk to you about a thing that has bothered me. 538 00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:40,280 The other day when you looked at pictures in mobile- 539 00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:45,640 -Si I saw that you looked On naked girls. 540 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:51,080 It's not fun. 541 00:46:52,240 --> 00:46:56,360 -Shood? -It's strange, you're married. 542 00:46:56,440 --> 00:47:01,920 There were no ordinary photos, It was selfies. 543 00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:06,600 -Why do you have those photos? -Downloaded. On-line. 544 00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,720 There were hundreds of girls. 545 00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:15,800 -Anable download models online. -There were no model images. 546 00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:19,240 You have a wife, why do you have to Look at other naked girls? 547 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:25,160 You know, Men have so many sexual desires. 548 00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,480 When you sleep I usually ... 549 00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:35,400 This is embarrassing. Must I ... 550 00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:40,640 To masturbate to other women is infidelity in my opinion. 551 00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,000 -Is that infidelity? -Yes, it's infidelity. 552 00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:53,680 I consider that everything that hurts The other person is infidelity. 553 00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:57,800 And he looked In these pictures when I was there. 554 00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:00,240 Have some decency. 555 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:04,480 I am your wife And I'm here, look at me. 556 00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:10,840 Do you think it's okay? What have you done before? 557 00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:15,480 -Previous? -Do you ever been unfaithful to me? 558 00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,720 You have to be completely honest. 559 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:23,560 -Mot you? Never. -Do you on God? 560 00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:26,280 Yes, I promise. 561 00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:33,040 I have never touched another Girl's hand. I'm innocent. 562 00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:38,640 Have you been unfaithful to your ex? 563 00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:42,760 Only towards one. 564 00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:48,160 She never had, In maybe three months ... 565 00:48:48,240 --> 00:48:51,200 She wasn't with me in two months. 566 00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,560 -To two or three months? -Yes. 567 00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:58,720 -Are you unfaithful if we have not sex? -Never. 568 00:49:02,720 --> 00:49:06,560 -I will never be unfaithful. -But you deceived your ex. 569 00:49:08,720 --> 00:49:12,080 I've probably never loved you. 570 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:17,560 I never loved her. Yes, I think so. 571 00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:22,320 That Jihoon told that he was unfaithful to his ex- 572 00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:27,920 — until she wasn't lying with him In two months worry me. 573 00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:30,800 We have been apart longer than that. 574 00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:36,000 The past is unimportant, So let's focus on you and me. 575 00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,560 I don't want to talk About what happened then. 576 00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:41,640 The past doesn't matter, Just think of you and me now. 577 00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:47,040 Once unfaithful, always unfaithful. 578 00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:50,320 Once fraudsters, always fraudsters. 579 00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:58,000 To find out that he has been unfaithful is worse than nude pictures. 580 00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:03,240 Now my concern has gone from 80 % to 120 %. 581 00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:10,440 Trust me, okay? 582 00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:16,880 If I didn't love you Had I used a condom. 583 00:50:18,720 --> 00:50:21,720 If I didn't love you Had I used a condom. 584 00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:27,440 I'm just saying as it is. 585 00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:31,800 I would never be unfaithful to Deavan. 586 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:37,400 Because I'm a dad. I have a family. Deavan is my wife. 587 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:39,960 It is very annoying. 588 00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:44,840 I want you to delete the pictures. All. 589 00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:51,440 I promise to erase the photos. 590 00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:57,120 Do I download them again I cut off the penis. 591 00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,240 It's a little extreme. 592 00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:09,320 I think jihoon loves me, but I can't shake off the feeling- 593 00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:13,960 -Th he's not Be faithful to me when we were apart. 594 00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:18,880 I have sacrificed everything for him. I Hope it wasn't a mistake. 595 00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:34,640 Jenny, 61 years, California Sumit, 32 years, India 596 00:51:41,240 --> 00:51:45,000 Now that everything is ready, How about celebrating? 597 00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:47,680 Yes, we will celebrate today. 598 00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:50,720 Rohit Sumit's friend 599 00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:57,680 The divorce is finished and I look forward against a new chapter in my life. 600 00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:03,200 -Now it's finally over. -Finally. I'm so happy. 601 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:09,400 It shows how much happier you are now. 602 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:14,440 Thanks for your support. 603 00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:17,680 -That's what friends are for. -I know. 604 00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:22,640 For a while it felt like The divorce would never go through. 605 00:52:22,720 --> 00:52:26,800 Without Dad's support Had I never managed it. 606 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:34,840 I'll probably go now. I go. 607 00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:45,000 I asked Rohit to give us some time, For now that the divorce is clear- 608 00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:50,480 I want to know what my parents Enjoy my relationship with Jenny. 609 00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:53,080 And what they expect from us. 610 00:52:56,000 --> 00:53:00,120 Finally. It's finally over. 611 00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:04,480 It ended in peace and that's good. 612 00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:10,640 Economically speaking Is it no small sum. 613 00:53:10,720 --> 00:53:13,240 It is very big, very big. 614 00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:18,120 I am thankful for that you could do it. 615 00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:23,120 -I intend to pay back. -Yes, you have to. 616 00:53:25,720 --> 00:53:29,240 -It's so much money. -I know it's hard. 617 00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:33,760 It's something that people earn, It takes several years to earn it together. 618 00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:35,440 He has not paid anything. 619 00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:38,960 Not a penny. 620 00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:43,040 But he promises over and over again. 621 00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:44,880 How can he pay back? 622 00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:50,600 How should I pay back so much Money for friends and relatives? 623 00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:55,800 I will work harder and give back your money as soon as possible. 624 00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:57,320 What is the plan? 625 00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:04,600 I just started working As a chef at a friend's cafe. 626 00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:07,200 But I don't earn much. 627 00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:11,200 Right now I work only three or four hours a day. 628 00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:16,640 The problem is also that Jenny is At home and she doesn't want me to go. 629 00:54:16,720 --> 00:54:19,440 She feels insecure. 630 00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:28,000 Since Jenny came to India I can Don't work full time. She needs me. 631 00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:32,600 She can't the language, she feels Nobody and the area is not great. 632 00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:36,240 We can't walk around in the area- 633 00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:38,240 -But that's all I can afford. 634 00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:41,800 I don't leave Jenny alone at home. 635 00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:47,080 To stay home for Jenny's Security does not meet your dreams. 636 00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:49,800 You have to make money. 637 00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:53,160 You have to establish you And you have to make money. 638 00:54:53,240 --> 00:54:56,000 If you want to pay back Do you have to do something. 639 00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:04,680 I was heading in the wrong direction. Now I can focus on working. 640 00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:08,640 I have to pay you As soon as possible. 641 00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:14,640 Also, I think on marrying Jenny- 642 00:55:14,720 --> 00:55:18,960 -For I've loved her for so long. 643 00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:21,920 You want a relationship with that woman- 644 00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:25,640 -which is older than your father, Older than your mother? 645 00:55:25,720 --> 00:55:31,080 Isn't that bad? Don't you think it's wrong? 646 00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:37,480 I married someone in my own Age, but what happened to it? 647 00:55:38,720 --> 00:55:43,080 You've just seen one girl. Just a girl. 648 00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:50,080 It feels good. Finally he has divorced. 649 00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:55,120 But it's awful that he want to marry that woman. 650 00:55:55,200 --> 00:56:00,000 He gets no family with her. This is not a marriage. 651 00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:05,400 She has supported me and supports me even- 652 00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:08,760 -In all aspects of life. 653 00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:12,800 Economically, morally and physically. 654 00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:18,040 She supported me with everything and now can I finally go through the process. 655 00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:21,600 Do you say you don't can do anything without her support? 656 00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:25,720 What do you want me to do? Betray her? 657 00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:29,800 That someone supports you doesn't mean that you should marry her. 658 00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:36,800 To marry With someone you love is not a crime. 659 00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:41,640 When the divorce was finished, I thought- 660 00:56:41,720 --> 00:56:46,320 -That I would be free To do everything I want in life. 661 00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:48,640 But it doesn't seem that way. 662 00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:57,400 You know that your mom will never accept it. 663 00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:02,080 Neither do I. 664 00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:11,400 We will stop you from marrying her. 665 00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:15,280 Do you understand? 666 00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,240 I will never allow it. 667 00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:35,800 Brittany, age 26, Florida 668 00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:42,280 Max, stop tearing the slipper. 669 00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:47,800 Look at my slipper. Do you mean seriously? 670 00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:53,480 Today I go back to Jordan After my divorce is finished. 671 00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:57,640 -You are ready? -No. 672 00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:01,240 Yes, but no. 673 00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:04,600 I'm not ready for you to go. 674 00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:11,360 I miss Yazan, but it doesn't feel Good to go back to Jordan. 675 00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:16,160 Now that I'm home Can I be myself again. 676 00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:21,320 I'm in my right element Without being judged so much. 677 00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:24,000 I don't know if I'm ready to give it up for yazan- 678 00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:26,800 -Mest because we have struggled a lot. 679 00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:32,120 I heard you talk on the phone. I don't sneak. 680 00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:35,840 But the tone worried me. 681 00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:39,160 I want you Should have a man that protects you. 682 00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:44,880 I'm worried, for last There were problems with family- 683 00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:47,640 -The he didn't stop it. 684 00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:50,000 You know how I am. 685 00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:57,520 It's hard to see Brittany go back. It was a lot of drama last. 686 00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:03,560 She called and cried inconveniently. It made me worried about her. 687 00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:11,400 There are so many factors And warning flags that worry me. 688 00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:17,960 The family pushed you to marry you, So what do they expect? 689 00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:22,800 I told Yazan and his family that we can get married when you come- 690 00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:26,240 -But it wasn't the right time. 691 00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:32,760 Yazan's parents believed that I would come with dad- 692 00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:35,360 -So that they could meet him And we can get married. 693 00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:41,080 During the divorce I realized that I is not ready to marry so fast. 694 00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:45,160 So I don't want to Bring dad to Jordan. 695 00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:51,000 Given what has happened I don't even want to come. 696 00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:58,160 If they are not open to it, I don't want to meet his family. 697 00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:02,800 I want to bring Angela there So he can meet a friend first. 698 01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:06,600 If all goes well So he gets to meet my family. 699 01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:10,040 If it goes well With my family we can get married. 700 01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:14,720 I like it. Take it easy. This is a commitment for life. 701 01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:16,800 You don't want to make the same mistake. 702 01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:24,960 My best friend Angela has offered to accompany me to Jordan. 703 01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:30,040 I don't want to be forced into another bad marriage. 704 01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:33,600 Especially because There is so much that is uncertain. 705 01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:39,400 Angela is the one I trust the most And will say what she thinks. 706 01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:46,840 The thing about Angela coming along, is a nice surprise to me. 707 01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:53,000 But I'm worried about the family, Because of what happened before. 708 01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:57,040 He seems to be more independent. 709 01:00:57,120 --> 01:01:03,560 His parents will be no problem, Because he has distanced away from them. 710 01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:08,480 He was close to his family, So what caused the separation? 711 01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:12,320 He decided to move out To be his own husband. 712 01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:16,480 This means that he abandons a lot. 713 01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:21,560 Good that he does it for you, but he Will also do it for yourself. 714 01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:25,080 Otherwise he will hold it against you later. 715 01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:27,800 It may be a problem later. 716 01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:30,640 Is it worthwhile to go back to Jordan too? 717 01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:42,400 It seems crazy to throw me in this situation- 718 01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:44,800 -When I doubt our relationship- 719 01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:47,960 -But I hope we can solve it. 720 01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:52,160 I'm not ready to give up If the man I fell in love with. 721 01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:03,280 Biniyam, 29 years, Ethiopia Ariela, 28 years, New Jersey 722 01:02:06,240 --> 01:02:07,960 Come and sit down. 723 01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:13,680 -It's okay. -No, it's not. 724 01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:22,120 It is an overwhelming feeling to see avi crying in pain. 725 01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:28,360 He knows nothing about suffering. It feels Like I fail as a mother. 726 01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:32,440 It is only now that he cries. 727 01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:36,000 Yes, but now he cries and is in pain. 728 01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:40,680 I made the wrong decision for him. 729 01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:49,000 Cannot I control the situation, Can't I be a good mom. 730 01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:59,680 I'm done. Of course. 731 01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:03,800 -Where is the diaper? -He things are in the bag. 732 01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:05,400 Should we bring a diaper? 733 01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:11,840 How does it feel now? 734 01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:15,560 It's okay now. 735 01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:20,720 It's okay. 736 01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:34,880 Okay, the doctor. Okay, we thank you. 737 01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:51,840 Check out, he's really pale. 738 01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:03,400 How are you? Are you okay? 739 01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:06,880 It feels better now When he is no longer crying. 740 01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:11,720 He has never screamed So much before. 741 01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:18,160 That's why I asked you to wait, So that you would not be emotional. 742 01:04:18,240 --> 01:04:22,800 You should be more emotional When you see your child cry so much. 743 01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:27,000 I feel. I'm human, I'm his father. 744 01:04:28,280 --> 01:04:31,680 Ari doesn't trust me. 745 01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:34,360 She has no confidence in me. 746 01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:39,320 It makes me worried For the future of our relationship. 747 01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:50,720 Now it is clear anyway. 748 01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:56,280 You seem to be mad at me for That I took him to the doctor. 749 01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:58,840 Yes, a little angry. 750 01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:06,000 The conflict between us is more Intense now that we have a baby. 751 01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:11,240 It makes me wonder where the relationship is going. 752 01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:14,000 I don't think we end up. 753 01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:17,440 But we have to sort out things So that we are both satisfied. 754 01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:23,320 Right now one of us always wins And the other always loses. 755 01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:29,640 Sorry, the old man. Sorry, but you will forgive me. 756 01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:47,120 Kenneth, 57 years, Florida Armando, 31 years, Mexico 757 01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:56,640 It's so beautiful. 758 01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:02,160 Kenny and I have talked About marriage for a few years. 759 01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:08,640 That's something we want and dream about. Today we are ready to realize it. 760 01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:11,080 Okay, we're there. 761 01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:15,840 -And I love you. -I love you more. 762 01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:19,920 We shall apply for a marriage license at the wedding office. 763 01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:23,240 WEDDING 764 01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:26,200 The clay State registrar 765 01:06:26,280 --> 01:06:29,160 -God afternoon. -He, good afternoon. 766 01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:32,440 We are here for information About same -sex marriage. 767 01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:35,560 Of course. Sit down. 768 01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:40,480 -Do you talk English? -No. 769 01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:44,280 I'll try to translate. 770 01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:50,120 We were asked to bring one Application letters and ID documents. 771 01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:54,240 But besides that Don't we know what we have to do. 772 01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:59,720 -Do I see the letter? -Yes, here are our actions. 773 01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:04,400 And the application letter. 774 01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:12,360 -Kenneth. -Kenneth and Armando? 775 01:07:16,000 --> 01:07:18,720 We must reject your application. 776 01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:28,320 On the net it stood that same -sex marriage was legal. 777 01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:33,080 In this case ... 778 01:07:33,160 --> 01:07:37,120 We have a law Who says you don't get it. 779 01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:42,440 And we have a constitution Who says you get it. 780 01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:51,720 Unfortunately we have none legislation that support- 781 01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:54,280 -That we reform our rules. 782 01:07:54,360 --> 01:07:59,200 The one who says we can't allow same -sex marriage. 783 01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:06,560 They must give us a rejection. They do not approve it now. 784 01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:10,800 Does it not say they are not getting In this state? 785 01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:14,360 The law says it is allowed, but The Constitution has not approved it. 786 01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:19,000 I know it's confusing. 787 01:08:21,760 --> 01:08:26,400 I looked it up and it said that same -sex marriage is legal here. 788 01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:33,600 I don't understand everything she says. It seems to contradict each other. 789 01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:37,160 So I'm confused. 790 01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:44,120 So they are asked to automatically deny same -sex couples? 791 01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:51,400 I don't even believe that seven words were expressed and it was denied. 792 01:08:51,480 --> 01:08:57,000 It wasn't even a discussion, Their routine is to deny directly. 793 01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:02,320 Have you had same -sex marriage here? Or not? 794 01:09:03,280 --> 01:09:09,480 Yes. We have had several same -sex marriage here. 795 01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:13,400 We have alternative action. 796 01:09:13,480 --> 01:09:17,880 You contact the Commission for human rights with rejection- 797 01:09:17,960 --> 01:09:19,760 -And submits a complaint. 798 01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:25,000 A complaint where you claim that this goes against your human rights- 799 01:09:25,080 --> 01:09:26,880 -To enter marriage. 800 01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:30,320 We must contact the Commission too human rights 801 01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:34,760 -and tell them that this violates our human rights- 802 01:09:34,840 --> 01:09:38,520 -and they will probably help us. 803 01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:42,200 -Did we have to go somewhere else? -Human rights. 804 01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:44,560 Then we come back here. 805 01:09:46,960 --> 01:09:50,960 -Ville he gets married quickly? -Yes, if we can. 806 01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:57,200 We have that contact in order to Support you and make the process short. 807 01:09:58,680 --> 01:10:02,200 I'm sure of that they will be approved. 808 01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:06,240 Yeah it takes longer than for a heterosexual couple. 809 01:10:06,320 --> 01:10:10,080 I want to help them so that they are approved faster. 810 01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:14,520 Because they have it Contact with Commission- 811 01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:18,120 -So it will go fast, But we have her support. 812 01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:22,160 Thanks. 813 01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:27,160 -Should we start? -Yes. 814 01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:33,880 I keep your application. Give me both your signatures. 815 01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:41,680 I don't understand everything. I wish I could ask my own questions. 816 01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:03,240 It's disappointing. 817 01:11:06,000 --> 01:11:09,160 I don't want to get rejected, I want to marry him. 818 01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:12,680 I don't want to fight in a fucking war- 819 01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:17,280 -To to marry someone I love. It does not go together. 820 01:11:20,560 --> 01:11:23,760 We're leaving this today- 821 01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:27,720 -and in a week we can go to the Commission and get a message. 822 01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:30,880 But there are no guarantees? 823 01:11:30,960 --> 01:11:34,720 She is optimistic. There are no guarantees, but ... 824 01:11:40,120 --> 01:11:44,000 -I hope for the best. -Okay. 825 01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:54,240 It is positive that she helps us to get it approved. 826 01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:04,760 -Nice to meet you. -Thanks. 827 01:12:06,240 --> 01:12:09,640 She could have said: "There's nothing you can do." 828 01:12:11,880 --> 01:12:14,200 We'll get married, honey. 829 01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:19,400 It gives me hope and gets me To feel that it will happen. 830 01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:25,520 But after being become very discriminated 831 01:12:25,600 --> 01:12:30,840 -Ts it me back to a time Then they just say no. 832 01:12:35,240 --> 01:12:41,120 The wedding license can be a challenge And we may have to fight for it. 833 01:12:41,200 --> 01:12:45,120 And when we choose local Will I wonder- 834 01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:48,600 -If it becomes a problem Because we are a same -sex couple? 835 01:12:48,680 --> 01:12:51,400 When we hire a catering company. 836 01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:57,760 It can be a problem. I don't know At all how accepted it is here. 837 01:12:57,840 --> 01:13:00,840 How much do we need to fight? 838 01:13:00,920 --> 01:13:03,680 We don't know. 839 01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:09,600 We don't know what Which will stand in the way of us. 840 01:13:10,760 --> 01:13:12,840 We will succeed. 841 01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:32,760 Ariela, 28 years, New Jersey BINYAM, 29 years, Ethiopia 842 01:13:34,400 --> 01:13:37,920 Look at his face. He is pale. 843 01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:44,960 Because I am a new mom and don't have anyone helping me- 844 01:13:45,040 --> 01:13:49,640 -We circumcision more emotional And stressful than it needed to be. 845 01:13:51,760 --> 01:13:56,080 But now that this is over Do I want to go home and cuddle with my son- 846 01:13:56,160 --> 01:13:58,520 -and stop thinking on what happened today. 847 01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:04,120 He has had a couple of hard days. He needs peace and quiet. 848 01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:10,400 Before it felt okay That you started working again. 849 01:14:10,480 --> 01:14:14,800 But now it feels good if you stay at home and helps with the baby. 850 01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:21,120 -Do you just be home? -Do you accompany? 851 01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:24,640 No, I can stay home if you want. 852 01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:30,000 You make it sound like torture. "I have to be with my wife and my son. ” 853 01:14:30,080 --> 01:14:33,960 -How do you want it? -I want you to want it. 854 01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:40,320 If you don't want to be home So that's your loss. 855 01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:43,080 Right? 856 01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:49,880 I understand you, but he doesn't know. 857 01:14:49,960 --> 01:14:55,080 -You don't feel good if I start working. -No, that's not what I said. 858 01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:00,120 It happens every time. 859 01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:03,680 I communicate with him And he thinks he understands. 860 01:15:03,760 --> 01:15:07,720 I did not communicate well enough, He didn't understand. 861 01:15:07,800 --> 01:15:12,360 I don't know what to do Until I learned Amharic. 862 01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:16,840 -I know you don't understand. -I don't understand. 863 01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:20,280 Should I translate? 864 01:15:21,840 --> 01:15:25,400 -You speak good English. -Thanks. 865 01:15:25,480 --> 01:15:29,560 -Are you a good interpreter? -I can try. 866 01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:33,680 -Is all well? -mode? Is everything well? 867 01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:39,040 Aren't you home? Is that why you are struggling? 868 01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:45,040 Yes and no. What gets us Brokery is often misunderstanding. 869 01:15:45,120 --> 01:15:48,560 She thinks I'll leave home. For me, it's a job. 870 01:15:48,640 --> 01:15:50,480 I have to work. 871 01:15:51,920 --> 01:15:57,400 We are struggling About our bad communication. 872 01:15:58,120 --> 01:16:04,320 If it gets really bad I say that I have to do something and go- 873 01:16:04,400 --> 01:16:08,360 -and then I'll come back When she has calmed down. 874 01:16:09,480 --> 01:16:13,520 When you are home Should you want to be there. 875 01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:18,640 She thinks she forces you. Do you understand? You have no choice. 876 01:16:18,720 --> 01:16:24,480 She says: “If I forced him To be home, it would hurt me. " 877 01:16:24,560 --> 01:16:29,120 I am happier with her. She doesn't force me. 878 01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:33,360 He says he Want to be with the baby and you. 879 01:16:33,440 --> 01:16:37,240 He does not say he should be home just to get rid of the problem- 880 01:16:37,320 --> 01:16:40,480 -And he says That he wants to be home. 881 01:16:42,440 --> 01:16:45,880 I don't usually lie down When I drive people. 882 01:16:46,880 --> 01:16:51,360 But today I listened because I myself am dad- 883 01:16:51,440 --> 01:16:55,920 -and some of their problems I have also gone through. 884 01:16:56,000 --> 01:17:00,800 I know how hard it is, Especially for new parents. 885 01:17:00,880 --> 01:17:05,520 I came here to be with him. 886 01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:09,840 It's not easy to have a child at the same time. 887 01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:12,680 My life changed so much. 888 01:17:12,760 --> 01:17:16,480 You have an advantage and can go wherever you want. 889 01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:20,800 If you get tired of us you can pull, But I can't. 890 01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:22,880 It is very difficult. 891 01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:27,200 -Do I say that to him? -Yes, you can do that. 892 01:17:27,280 --> 01:17:32,040 We men are not as needed, Although it is our children. 893 01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:35,600 We bring what they ask us, We bring diapers with us. 894 01:17:35,680 --> 01:17:37,880 Besides that, our lives are unchanged. 895 01:17:37,960 --> 01:17:41,400 As you see Has her life changed a lot. 896 01:17:42,640 --> 01:17:45,960 She says hers Val has been taken away from her. 897 01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:52,240 “With the baby I have none of it left. " 898 01:17:53,280 --> 01:17:55,000 That's right. 899 01:17:55,080 --> 01:17:59,600 She says That she came here for your sake. 900 01:17:59,680 --> 01:18:04,240 “I've changed a lot. Does he understand that? " 901 01:18:10,920 --> 01:18:13,320 I understand. I see. 902 01:18:15,160 --> 01:18:19,680 I understand Ariela better now. 903 01:18:19,760 --> 01:18:22,560 She has changed my life And I'm so grateful. 904 01:18:23,640 --> 01:18:26,560 The suffering and depression are over. 905 01:18:26,640 --> 01:18:29,560 I am whole and happy- 906 01:18:29,640 --> 01:18:34,520 -For I have a family. 907 01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:40,000 I will never forget What she has done to me. 908 01:18:40,760 --> 01:18:45,080 I'm so happy And have you to thank you for so much. 909 01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:51,040 I may not be completely happy, But I don't want you to drag- 910 01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:57,640 -For we have a hard time. It would be nice If we can have a good time at home. 911 01:19:00,560 --> 01:19:03,320 I understand more How Biniyam thinks and feels. 912 01:19:03,400 --> 01:19:05,800 I just want to know that he thinks of me and avi- 913 01:19:05,880 --> 01:19:10,800 -and that he is trying to communicate Without forcing him. 914 01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:17,360 Samy, thank you for laying up In our conversation. It was unexpected. 915 01:19:18,320 --> 01:19:22,800 If we need someone who can translate, So maybe you can do it. 916 01:19:22,880 --> 01:19:25,240 Or if we need Marriage counseling. 917 01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:39,080 Brittany, age 26, Florida 918 01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:48,640 Max looks sad because you go. 919 01:19:48,720 --> 01:19:52,600 I wish I could bring with you, Because you are my best friend. 920 01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:57,560 No one understands me as you do, Max. 921 01:19:57,640 --> 01:19:59,920 Today I am going to go Back to Jordan. 922 01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:04,560 -I will miss you, max. -Mig, then? 923 01:20:04,640 --> 01:20:08,840 My friend Angela meets me there The day after I get there. 924 01:20:08,920 --> 01:20:12,840 Take care of you and ... 925 01:20:13,960 --> 01:20:16,800 -Ware careful. -I'll. 926 01:20:16,880 --> 01:20:22,040 It has felt so good to be At home in Florida and have my freedom. 927 01:20:22,120 --> 01:20:26,320 So i'm hesitant to to go back to Jordan. 928 01:20:26,400 --> 01:20:30,480 Yazan and I have a lot to talk about And things to compromise on. 929 01:20:31,440 --> 01:20:37,160 Do not hold back. If not Feels good, jump on a plane home. 930 01:20:37,240 --> 01:20:41,120 -I'll. -Or let me jump on a plane. 931 01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:45,520 Based on what I know about Yazan's warning flags, the quarrel- 932 01:20:45,600 --> 01:20:50,400 -Sepparation from the family and yazan as vela- 933 01:20:51,400 --> 01:20:56,400 -I don't see him as the man I want my daughter to join. 934 01:20:58,840 --> 01:21:02,000 -Max! -You should not go. 935 01:21:02,080 --> 01:21:05,200 No, Max. Don't make me feel bad. 936 01:21:06,120 --> 01:21:11,240 -Do not be sad. -Give me another hug. See you. 937 01:21:14,920 --> 01:21:17,840 -Hay then. -Hay then. 938 01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:22,320 I love Yazan and moved to on the other hand the earth for his sake. 939 01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:25,400 Hello then. 940 01:21:26,360 --> 01:21:32,680 But after all that has happened I doubt our relationship. 941 01:21:43,960 --> 01:21:46,640 I caused an accident. 942 01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:50,000 For you. 943 01:21:50,600 --> 01:21:56,400 A picture of the car I brought along for to increase your value in your friends 944 01:21:56,480 --> 01:22:03,560 I was knocked out yesterday and put Over $ 1,000 on repair 945 01:22:06,800 --> 01:22:09,160 I have nothing to do with it! 946 01:22:09,240 --> 01:22:12,360 Then we will see what is going on. 947 01:22:14,480 --> 01:22:16,800 It's your fault Don't blame me 948 01:22:16,880 --> 01:22:20,560 You drive carelessly 949 01:22:24,040 --> 01:22:26,800 -He is mad at me. -Why is he angry? 950 01:22:26,880 --> 01:22:32,320 He crashed his car and said that Be my fault. I don't understand him. 951 01:22:33,920 --> 01:22:38,600 I don't know what happened to the car Yazan had the last time I was in Jordan. 952 01:22:38,680 --> 01:22:42,000 But this time he said That he may not have a car. 953 01:22:42,080 --> 01:22:48,600 I said we could take a taxi, but he got a car anyway- 954 01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:54,280 -and now he blames me for He bought the car and crashed it. 955 01:22:58,520 --> 01:23:02,560 Every time I try to change- 956 01:23:02,640 --> 01:23:06,360 — I seek to think: "Brittany is happy." 957 01:23:06,440 --> 01:23:13,280 But she is not happy, for she Don't care what I want to do. 958 01:23:14,160 --> 01:23:18,800 And all I spend here In order for you to come- 959 01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:24,200 — because you can't live Like usual people here! 960 01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:35,920 I don't understand why you blame me because you crashed a car. 961 01:23:37,600 --> 01:23:42,360 I'm tired of his bullshit, he blames the car on me- 962 01:23:42,440 --> 01:23:46,560 -And says it's my fault that He has to pay $ 1,000. 963 01:23:54,640 --> 01:23:57,600 You're weird, I don't know what your problem is. 964 01:23:57,680 --> 01:24:02,120 You said: "I don't want to marry you!" 965 01:24:02,200 --> 01:24:06,720 No, that was not what happened. It wasn't because I said it. 966 01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:11,080 -So it wasn't. Don't lie. -Yes. Why? 967 01:24:11,160 --> 01:24:14,600 -Why? Why did I say so? -Or you are selfish! 968 01:24:14,680 --> 01:24:17,280 You don't want to help me. You want me to do everything. 969 01:24:17,360 --> 01:24:21,360 -I am not selfish! You are! -You are so selfish. 970 01:24:21,440 --> 01:24:23,800 -What have you done for me?- -Don't talk, Brittney. 971 01:24:23,880 --> 01:24:27,120 -What have you done in the relationship? -All! 972 01:24:27,200 --> 01:24:30,480 What is everything? What have you been up to? 973 01:24:30,560 --> 01:24:36,760 -I have my job and my store. -What have you done for me? 974 01:24:36,840 --> 01:24:41,160 Not for yourself, but for me? All that is for yourself. 975 01:24:41,240 --> 01:24:46,160 You work for yourself and have The hairdressing salon. I didn't ask you. 976 01:24:46,240 --> 01:24:51,840 No, I lived with my parents! 977 01:24:51,920 --> 01:24:54,360 When you come, I finish everything. 978 01:24:54,440 --> 01:24:59,000 It doesn't matter. 979 01:24:59,080 --> 01:25:03,120 Have you screamed clearly? Have you screamed clearly? 980 01:25:03,200 --> 01:25:08,040 No, I'm not done. You call and want things ... 981 01:25:09,240 --> 01:25:10,720 Stop! 982 01:25:12,320 --> 01:25:14,680 Shut up. 983 01:25:16,000 --> 01:25:17,480 Hello then. 984 01:25:22,600 --> 01:25:25,440 The whole situation is crazy. 985 01:25:25,520 --> 01:25:29,800 I haven't even got on the plane And he is already struggling. 986 01:25:29,880 --> 01:25:32,240 I'm tired of it. 987 01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:40,400 I am starting to realize that Yazan Maybe never will change. 988 01:25:43,280 --> 01:25:48,440 It was the answers I needed. I don't have to go to Jordan. 989 01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:55,200 I don't go on the flight. 990 01:25:56,760 --> 01:25:58,800 Paragraph, paragraph, paragraph. 991 01:26:04,960 --> 01:26:09,040 In the next section by "90 Day fiancé: The Other Way". 992 01:26:09,120 --> 01:26:11,880 A ring ceremony will be the next step. 993 01:26:11,960 --> 01:26:14,520 Should we invite your parents? 994 01:26:14,600 --> 01:26:19,480 Yesterday after the divorce, Dad said they will protest. 995 01:26:19,560 --> 01:26:23,440 -Why didn't you say that yesterday? -It happened yesterday. 996 01:26:25,240 --> 01:26:29,440 Last time we saw it was a little difficult. 997 01:26:29,520 --> 01:26:33,520 One could think she would be the one who can think clearly- 998 01:26:33,600 --> 01:26:37,000 -and not make things worse. 999 01:26:37,080 --> 01:26:39,680 If you are unhappy Maybe it's time to move on. 1000 01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:48,240 She said, "No, you don't do anything to me." 1001 01:26:48,320 --> 01:26:52,720 Since I last met Brittany Have I lost my family. 1002 01:26:54,880 --> 01:26:57,640 I just landed. 1003 01:26:57,720 --> 01:27:02,320 I don't know if Yazan is out there. 1004 01:27:06,040 --> 01:27:09,920 Last time I landed and he Picked me up wasn't that nice. 1005 01:27:10,000 --> 01:27:13,280 I'm just looking for the exit. 1006 01:27:16,280 --> 01:27:22,200 I have to work tonight. When we have Sumpy, so I go. Okay? 1007 01:27:23,000 --> 01:27:27,160 -No, it sounds like bullshit. -You have to trust me. 1008 01:27:30,040 --> 01:27:33,320 I can go through the phone and call everyone and say: 1009 01:27:33,400 --> 01:27:36,920 "Hi, it's Biniyam's girlfriend. We Just had children, who the hell are you? ” 1010 01:27:45,000 --> 01:27:49,000 Translation: Matilda Klang iyunomg.com